Partners

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The partners of bi-genders can have a tough time of it, particularly in the area of re-evaluating their own sexual orientation.

And most particularly if the bi-gender outs themselves later on in the relationship.

Because bi-genders are often absorbed in their own spiritual battles, they can overlook the challenges faced by their partner.

The Partner's Challenge

"I fell in love with a man, not a woman"

or :

"I fell in love with a woman, not a man"

"I'm still the same person you fell in love with on the inside...just more honest on the outside"

By outing themselves to a partner the bi-gender takes a tremendous personal risk.

Rejection, dissolution of the relationship, physical and mental abuse are just a few of these risks.

But these are personal risks that the Bi-gender takes with "fully informed consent"

The partner however is by definition, not "fully informed" until he or she is outed to.

Further, they may resent being forced to re-evaluate their own hetero/homo/bi sexuality